Understanding the Funeral Process: A Step-by-Step Guide to What to Expect
When facing the loss of a loved one, navigating the funeral process can feel overwhelming. At Farrington Mortuary, we understand that clear information and compassionate guidance make this difficult time more manageable. This comprehensive guide walks you through what to expect during the funeral process, providing the knowledge you need during this challenging period.
The Initial Steps After a Loss
The moments following a death are often filled with confusion and emotion. Knowing what happens first can help you feel more grounded during this difficult time.
Immediate Decisions
When a loved one passes, several immediate decisions must be made:
Contacting a funeral home to begin arrangements
Deciding between cremation, burial, or alternative options like Terramation
Determining if you want a viewing, memorial service, or both
Choosing who will handle arrangements and be the primary contact
At Farrington Mortuary, we're available 24/7 to guide you through these initial decisions with care and without pressure. Our compassionate staff will explain all options clearly, respecting your emotional needs while providing practical guidance.
Step 1: Planning & Bringing Your Loved One Into Our Care (Days 1-3)
The funeral process officially begins when you contact us. During this phase:
We arrange for the transportation of your loved one to our care facility
Our staff collects essential information for legal documents
We help you explore service options that honor your loved one's legacy
You select appropriate merchandise such as urns or caskets if needed
We begin personalization of the services according to your wishes
This initial planning phase typically takes 1-3 days, during which we handle all logistics while you focus on gathering family and processing your loss.
Step 2: Official Registration (Days 4-7)
During this phase, we manage all necessary legal documentation:
Filing the death certificate with county and state authorities
Securing permits for cremation, burial, or other disposition methods
Registering the death with vital records departments
Preparing documentation for any veteran's benefits if applicable
Coordinating with cemeteries or other final resting places
This crucial administrative step ensures everything proceeds legally and without unnecessary delays. While paperwork is being processed, we continue preparing for the chosen services and supporting your family's needs.
Step 3: Cremation, Burial, or Terramation (Days 8-10)
Once all permits and authorizations are in place, we proceed with your chosen disposition method:
Cremation: Performed with dignity at our private facility, adhering to strict protocols and respectful practices.
Burial: We coordinate with your chosen cemetery, arrange transportation, and ensure proper preparation for the committal service.
Terramation: For those choosing this eco-friendly option, we partner with specialized providers to facilitate the human composting process.
Throughout this phase, our attention to detail ensures your loved one is treated with the utmost respect and care.
Step 4: Returning Your Loved One's Remains (Days 11-15)
After cremation or Terramation is completed:
We notify you when the remains are ready
You can receive them in person at our Los Angeles or Orange County offices
We offer personal delivery options for local families
For distant families, we provide secure shipping via USPS Priority Mail Express
This transfer is handled with dignity and care, ensuring your loved one's remains return to you in a respectful manner.
Step 5: Death Certificates (2-3 Weeks)
Death certificates are essential documents for handling estate matters, insurance claims, and closing accounts. We:
Request certified copies from the county where the death occurred
Process them through the appropriate Health Department
Mail them directly to your address once they're issued
While this process typically takes 2-3 weeks, we can often provide temporary documentation for urgent matters while waiting for official certificates.
Funeral Services and Memorialization Options
Throughout the process, we help families explore meaningful ways to honor their loved ones:
Contemporary Service Options
Viewings and Visitations: Intimate gatherings in our gallery-like space
Memorial Services: Personalized celebrations of life held at various locations
Home Wakes: Traditional services conducted in the comfort of familiar surroundings
Green Burial Services: Eco-friendly options for environmentally conscious families
Personalization Elements
Adding personal touches creates a more meaningful service:
Customized music selections
Photo displays or video tributes
Meaningful readings or poems
Personal mementos and memory tables
Custom-designed service programs
Support Throughout the Journey
Unlike many funeral homes that offer limited contact after arrangements are made, Farrington Mortuary stands by families throughout the entire process. Our commitment includes:
Regular updates on timing and next steps
24/7 availability for questions and concerns
Grief support resources when needed
Assistance with practical matters after the funeral
Planning Ahead
For those who wish to ease the burden on their loved ones, we offer pre-planning services that allow you to:
Document your wishes in advance
Make financial arrangements to cover future costs
Ensure your preferences are clearly understood
Provide peace of mind for yourself and your family
Final Thoughts
Understanding the funeral process step by step helps reduce anxiety during an already difficult time. At Farrington Mortuary, we believe transparent communication and compassionate guidance make all the difference in helping families navigate their grief journey.
Whether you're currently facing a loss or planning ahead, our team is here to provide the information, support, and personalized service you deserve. Every family's needs are unique, and we honor that by offering a flexible approach that puts your wishes and comfort first.
For personalized guidance through the funeral process, contact Farrington Mortuary at (800) 674-3659 or begin arrangements online through our simple, user-friendly platform.